One solution is to turn the situation on its head.You want to make avoidance visible.Open a savings account and label it for something you want—maybe “Leather Jacket.”Whenever you pass on a purchase, put the same amount of money in the account.Skip your morning latte?Transfer $5.Pass on another month of Netflix?Move $10 over.It’s like creating a loyalty program for yourself.The immediate reward of seeing yourself save money toward the leather jacket feels a lot better than being deprived.You are making it satisfying to do nothing.One of my readers and his wife used a similar setup.They wanted to stop eating out so much and start cooking together more.They labeled their savings account “Trip to Europe.”Whenever they skipped going out to eat, they transferred $50 into the account.At the end of the year, they put the money toward the vacation.It is worth noting that it is important to select short-term rewards that reinforce your identity rather than ones that conflict with it.Buying a new jacket is fine if you’re trying to lose weight or read more books, but it doesn’t work if you’re trying to budget and save money.Instead, taking a bubble bath or going on a leisurely walk are good examples of rewarding yourself with free time, which aligns with your ultimate goal of more freedom and financial independence.Similarly, if your reward for exercising is eating a bowl of ice cream, then you’re casting votes for conflicting identities, and it ends up being a wash.Instead, maybe your reward is a massage, which is both a luxury and a vote toward taking care of your body.Now the short-term reward is aligned with your long-term vision of being a healthy person.
reinforce your identity/ˌriːɪnˈfɔːrs jʊr aɪˈdentəti/
强化你的身份认同
Ex: A book reward can reinforce your identity as a reader.
例句翻译:一本书作为奖励可以强化你作为读者的身份认同。 分析:reinforce your identity 指让某种自我认同更稳固。
conflict with/kənˈflɪkt wɪð/
与……冲突
Ex: A shopping reward may conflict with a saving goal.
例句翻译:购物奖励可能与存钱目标冲突。 分析:conflict with 表示目标或行为互相矛盾。
Buying a new jacket is fine if you’re trying to lose weight or read more books, but it doesn’t work if you’re trying to budget and save money.
如果你想减肥或多读书,买一件新夹克作为奖励没问题;但如果你想做预算、存钱,这就行不通了。
budget/ˈbʌdʒɪt/
做预算;预算
Ex: They budget every Sunday before shopping.
例句翻译:他们每周日购物前都会做预算。 分析:budget 作动词时表示规划钱怎么花。
Instead, taking a bubble bath or going on a leisurely walk are good examples of rewarding yourself with free time, which aligns with your ultimate goal of more freedom and financial independence.
Similarly, if your reward for exercising is eating a bowl of ice cream, then you’re casting votes for conflicting identities, and it ends up being a wash.
同样,如果你锻炼后的奖励是吃一碗冰淇淋,那你就是在为相互冲突的身份投票,最终效果会相互抵消。
similarly/ˈsɪmələrli/
同样地
Ex: Similarly, your reward should support your identity.
例句翻译:同样地,你的奖励应该支持你的身份认同。 分析:similarly 用来引出相似情况。
casting votes/ˈkæstɪŋ voʊts/
投票;用行动支持
Ex: Every workout is casting votes for a healthier identity.