Problem #2: Achieving a goal is only a momentary change.Imagine you have a messy room and you set a goal to clean it.If you summon the energy to tidy up, then you will have a clean room—for now.But if you maintain the same sloppy, pack-rat habits that led to a messy room in the first place, soon you’ll be looking at a new pile of clutter and hoping for another burst of motivation.You’re left chasing the same outcome because you never changed the system behind it.You treated a symptom without addressing the cause.
Achieving a goal only changes your life for the moment.That’s the counterintuitive thing about improvement.We think we need to change our results, but the results are not the problem.What we really need to change are the systems that cause those results.When you solve problems at the results level, you only solve them temporarily.In order to improve for good, you need to solve problems at the systems level.Fix the inputs and the outputs will fix themselves.
Problem #3: Goals restrict your happiness.The implicit assumption behind any goal is this: “Once I reach my goal, then I’ll be happy.”The problem with a goals-first mentality is that you’re continually putting happiness off until the next milestone.I’ve slipped into this trap so many times I’ve lost count.For years, happiness was always something for my future self to enjoy.I promised myself that once I gained twenty pounds of muscle or after my business was featured in the New York Times, then I could finally relax.
Furthermore, goals create an “either-or” conflict: either you achieve your goal and are successful or you fail and you are a disappointment.You mentally box yourself into a narrow version of happiness.This is misguided.It is unlikely that your actual path through life will match the exact journey you had in mind when you set out.It makes no sense to restrict your satisfaction to one scenario when there are many paths to success.
A systems-first mentality provides the antidote.When you fall in love with the process rather than the product, you don’t have to wait to give yourself permission to be happy.You can be satisfied anytime your system is running.And a system can be successful in many different forms, not just the one you first envision.
Problem #2: Achieving a goal is only a momentary change.
问题#2:实现目标只是短期的变化。
Achieving a goal[əˈtʃiːvɪŋ ə ɡoʊl]
实现一个目标
Ex: Achieving a goal requires consistent effort and dedication.
例句翻译:实现目标需要持续的努力和奉献。
Momentary change[ˈmoʊməntɛri tʃeɪndʒ]
短期变化
Ex: His happiness was only a momentary change, fading away soon.
例句翻译:他的幸福只是短暂的变化,很快就消失了。
Imagine you have a messy room and you set a goal to clean it.
想象你有一个凌乱的房间,你设定了一个目标来清理它。
Messy room[ˈmɛsi ruːm]
凌乱的房间
Ex: My messy room makes it hard to concentrate on my work.
例句翻译:我凌乱的房间让我很难集中精力工作。
Set a goal[sɛt ə ɡoʊl]
设定目标
Ex: I set a goal to exercise for thirty minutes every day.
例句翻译:我设定了一个每天锻炼三十分钟的目标。
If you summon the energy to tidy up, then you will have a clean room—for now.
如果你鼓起劲整理房间,那么你会有一个干净的房间——暂时是这样。
Summon the energy[ˈsʌmən ði ˈɛnərdʒi]
鼓起劲
Ex: She summoned the energy to finish her work despite being tired.
例句翻译:尽管很累,她还是鼓起劲完成了工作。
Tidy up[ˈtaɪdi ʌp]
整理
Ex: I need to tidy up my desk before I can start working.
例句翻译:我需要整理一下桌子才能开始工作。
But if you maintain the same sloppy, pack-rat habits that led to a messy room in the first place, soon you’ll be looking at a new pile of clutter and hoping for another burst of motivation.